DNA Lady
It's the most wonderful time of the year.....
Well, not when you find receipts for items purchased at Victoria's Secret or the local jewelry store and then don't find the corresponding gift under the tree.
Where there is smoke - there is fire. If you think you have a problem you probably do - otherwise you would be thinking of sugarplums and pumpkin pie instead. Unless you usually have voices in your head, then that is another blog for another day and a different kind of DNA test altogether.
Infidelity is an ugly thing with far reaching affects on an individual and a family. I've personally never understood why you can't just be honest and say - honey, I love you but I'm just not a one woman man or I'm just not a one man woman... whatever, today's society doesn't care or judge so why not just be honest about your intentions. Learned recently you are judged by your actions, not by your intentions...
Whatever your circumstances, it is often wise to be discreet and make no claims or judgment until you have facts in hand. If you are able to safely approach the offender with a DNA test in hand, stating it is not your DNA, it is your DNA or there is DNA here and why is it here - you have a better chance of getting an honest answer. As always, be prepared to deal with emotions and unexpected responses. Did you find an article that has a substance or stain on it that should not be? Would you like to determine if strange DNA is showing up in places it ought not to? Would you like to compare the DNA found somewhere to that of your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend/better half/other half?
While most DNA testing centers concentrate on family relationship (paternity) tests, many also offer infidelity testing. DNA can be obtained from almost any article - although depending on age and storage - not all DNA produces a profile for comparison. It is always best to ask your local DNA collector for advice on how to collect or store an item that you want to test for "unknown" DNA. To begin with, always store the item in an envelope or paper bag - do not store items to be tested for DNA in plastic.
Why go through another holiday, wondering what he bought "her" or how much she spent on "the other guy". Get confirmation via DNA testing today and spend the holidays without the added stress. Infidelity is like the big elephant in the room - everyone knows it is happening but no one wants to say anything because it is "the holidays".
Well, not when you find receipts for items purchased at Victoria's Secret or the local jewelry store and then don't find the corresponding gift under the tree.
Where there is smoke - there is fire. If you think you have a problem you probably do - otherwise you would be thinking of sugarplums and pumpkin pie instead. Unless you usually have voices in your head, then that is another blog for another day and a different kind of DNA test altogether.
Infidelity is an ugly thing with far reaching affects on an individual and a family. I've personally never understood why you can't just be honest and say - honey, I love you but I'm just not a one woman man or I'm just not a one man woman... whatever, today's society doesn't care or judge so why not just be honest about your intentions. Learned recently you are judged by your actions, not by your intentions...
Whatever your circumstances, it is often wise to be discreet and make no claims or judgment until you have facts in hand. If you are able to safely approach the offender with a DNA test in hand, stating it is not your DNA, it is your DNA or there is DNA here and why is it here - you have a better chance of getting an honest answer. As always, be prepared to deal with emotions and unexpected responses. Did you find an article that has a substance or stain on it that should not be? Would you like to determine if strange DNA is showing up in places it ought not to? Would you like to compare the DNA found somewhere to that of your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend/better half/other half?
While most DNA testing centers concentrate on family relationship (paternity) tests, many also offer infidelity testing. DNA can be obtained from almost any article - although depending on age and storage - not all DNA produces a profile for comparison. It is always best to ask your local DNA collector for advice on how to collect or store an item that you want to test for "unknown" DNA. To begin with, always store the item in an envelope or paper bag - do not store items to be tested for DNA in plastic.
Why go through another holiday, wondering what he bought "her" or how much she spent on "the other guy". Get confirmation via DNA testing today and spend the holidays without the added stress. Infidelity is like the big elephant in the room - everyone knows it is happening but no one wants to say anything because it is "the holidays".
